The Pain Of The Workplace "Rubber Collar"

There is a group of people called "rubber white-collar", they have no nerve, no pain; do not care about criticism, do not care about praise.

Such a "dreamless, painless, boring" rubber man may be living near you.

But who can understand their inner anguish and powerless accusation?

Many people were taught to "grow up and get ahead of the world," and tried hard to finish reading the books. Before they could catch up, they began to bustle about their houses and cars, and saddle their wives and children.

In real life, I have become unremarkable.

Watching the dust filled guitar at home, the passion to be a rock singer has long gone.

Standing among tall buildings, I forgot how to write the two words of dreams.

Expert analysis: dream is not purely spiritual, material pursuit and spiritual pursuit complement each other.

The dream that education gives us may be far away, not everyone can realize it, but happiness is around us and does not need material basis.

We should set a low threshold for happiness, let ourselves get a sense of achievement and satisfaction from "little happiness" and enjoy positive emotional reactions, such as making dinner, entertaining friends, buying a gift to encourage ourselves.

I go out at seven every morning and do not know when to go home at night.

Sometimes when I am free, I sleep until noon, and I am tired of working overtime for more days.

No merit, no preservation.

I feel numb in my heart. Sometimes I go to the bar to soak in the morning or sing at KTV all night. But after the bustle, I feel tired and lonely.

Expert analysis: in modern society, many people engage in jobs that they do not like very much, and in addition to competitive pressures, they are prone to burnout.

When the body appears "insomnia, anorexia, low mood" signal, it should be adjusted in time, give yourself a vacation.

But when resting, we must follow the biological rhythm and life rule of the human body. If we spend our holidays in staying up late playing, visiting relatives and friends, and traveling on the road, we can not only relax mentally but also make the body "more tired and tired".

The story of cheating is not new, but telling truth is a common lesson.

Small white collar workers in foreign companies find themselves unable to believe others, or even "nervous": beggars on the roadside must be cheaters.

In order not to be fooled and not make mistakes, she learned to omit her expression and isolate her heart.

Expert analysis:

Mutual sincerity and sincerity can be harvested.

People often like to judge by intuition, but they do not know that first impressions can easily lead to subjective bias or even misleading.

"Do not greet" is really "contemptuous", or is there another reason? At this time, we must learn to analyze comprehensively, try to abandon prejudices, change attitudes, and praise others from heart, so that we can achieve good communication and enhance mutual trust.